It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.

But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.

And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy.


(via jesshambys)


(via weliveinarapeculturesociety)

(Quelle: tainted-bliss)

"Es wäre heut’ nicht wie es ist,
wär es damals nicht gewesen wie es war"
— Casper (via k-aleidoskop)


Acoustic versions of songs were created to make people cry

"What no one ever talks about

is how dangerous hope can be.

Call it forgiveness 
with teeth."
— Clementine von Radics, excerpt from “Change Came to Me Like a Crooked Beast” (via modernmethadone)

(Quelle: cottonheaded)

"You need dragons in your life"
— Ancient proverb (via kvallning)

(Quelle: bigwordsforahobbit)

  1. Camera: Samsung GT-I9300
  2. Aperture: f/2,6
  3. Exposure: 1/3333th
  4. Focal Length: 3mm

(Quelle: archdvmon)

"Why do people have to be this lonely? What’s the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?"
— Haruki Murakami, Sputnik Sweetheart (via observando)
"For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse.

So collapse.
This is not your destruction.

This is your birth."
n.t. (via northwolves)
"Sometimes you just have to take a day to shut the world out so you can open up to yourself and deal with the chaos inside of you. And you don’t need to feel guilty or apologize or try to justify needing space. You just do what you need to do to take care of yourself, and that’s it. No explanation needed."
— Dele Olanubi  (via anditslove)

(Quelle: bealightinthedark)